Good morning, various Earth-dwellers. No I’m not running out of ways to greet you, what a ridiculous question. Have you missed me? So have I. It’s not the same when I’m gone.
MY BUSINESS CARDS HAVE ARRIVED. IT’S OFFICIALLY BUSINESS TIME.
The vision in orange you can see pictured above, are my beautiful, beautiful business cards. I feel very sophisticated indeed. Like I’m the kind of person that drinks red wine and is knowledgeable about Polish art films.
I hope you have all had a lovely week. I have. It involved some sparkly earrings that make me feel like a princess, Harry Potter & The Half Blood Prince, pyjamas and vanilla slices (a.k.a Mille Feuille/a.k.a food of the gods).
Now, I have a confession to make.
I am a feminist.
*Shock horror*
For some reason, identifying with this word has become something of a statement recently. It seems that the stigma surrounding the word has increased over the years, to such an extent that the actual ideology has been associated with various myths. The thing about a myth is, is that it’s very very loosely based on some vague notion of the what could be the truth which has become exaggerated and modified over time to eventually become a distortion of the facts.
Feminism has a really bad reputation in the modern world. This means that not only are we attempting to dismantle the patriarchy (a pretty hard job in itself), but now, we are also tasked with defending ourselves against all of these myths. That’s what I’m going to attempt to do today. Keep an open mind, and don’t interrupt.
1. “All feminists hate men.” This is not true. In fact, believe it or not, most of us enjoy male company. If anyone who calls themselves a feminist does hate men, this is a personal life choice, and not a requirement that goes along with the ideology. There isn’t a questionnaire or an initiation. Believe it or not, feminists are just people who want to make the world a more accepting place for both genders. Feminists don’t hate men. Feminists are working to dismantle the sexism and the patriarchy and promote gender equality. Now, I know what you’re thinking – Hold the front door, ‘fem’ = female / ‘pat’ = male, this is women against men. Sorry, that’s not true either. To be quite honest with you, it is of little consequence what we call the things. Words are just letters in a particular order that we associate with various objects and concepts. Yes, feminism does just so happen to be called feminism and the patriarchy does just so happen to be called the patriarchy, this is most likely because women (fem) generally are the oppressed group in the scenario that we call life, and men (pat) are those who benefit from the patriarchy. But it’s important to remember that they could just as easily be called flargan-shonan and perdingralar, and that would not change anything. (Well it would make them more fun words to say)
2. “All feminists are lesbians.” Some feminists probably are lesbians, yes, well done. Some feminists are heterosexual women, yes, well done. Some feminists are transgender, bisexual, asexual, pansexual – yes that’s also true. Some feminists are men – aha! Didn’t see that one coming, did ya? So what? The sexuality/gender of a group of people fighting for a cause is irrelevant. The reasons this myth is used as an argument against feminism are: a) Some people are homophobic morons and try to use ‘lesbian’ as an insult. It’s not working. We had a meeting. b) Because when someone doesn’t understand something, they move to the realm of the personal in order to try and undermine the persons they are arguing against, instead of actually finding flaws in the opposing argument i.e. Yeah? Is that so? Well – you’re ugly! (You’re not ugly, I was just using that as an example. You’re all beautiful)
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