Happy End of the Week, beautiful people!
I’m very happy to see all of your smiling faces again, and celebrate the glorious weekend with you. I use the word ‘see’ in a loose metaphorical way. I’m actually pretending to be a writer at the moment…had I mentioned that? I can’t see you, but I’m sure you’re all smiling, because, well, you’re reading my blog.
Welcome to my 15th post! This feels very momentous. It’s like my 15th birthday all over again, because, much like when I turned 15, I feel like I know everything there is to know about everything, and I’m wearing colourful hair extensions which I bought for £1.99 from Claire’s.
I don’t know everything there is to know about everything, I don’t even know everything about some things. What I do know is that the things I know have been passed onto me by various other people, who do know a lot more than I do. Today I wanted to share a few little nuggets with you this lovely winter’s eve.
Disclaimer: I’m afraid that the ‘nuggets’ to which I’m referring are made from advice, not chicken. I know, I was disappointed too. It’ll be okay.
These are some very wise words passed onto me by some very wise people, and some wise websites, which help me both in my writing and just being a day-to-day full-time human being.
Don’t get it right; get it writ
– Adam Barnard (a very talented writer and director who you should all be aware of). This is basically my new motto. When you’re in the early stages of something, like I am with my ‘play’ (15 pages in ah-woo-hoo), it’s very important not to edit yourself. And if you do edit yourself, don’t delete things permanently. When I’m cutting/rearranging, I like to open up another document and paste the thing I’m not too happy with in there, so I can still revisit/rework/rewrite it etc. Don’t think of your work as a magnum opus, think of it more as an evolving document that just is what it is. I don’t know, this might work. Try it and see.
Writing isn’t worth it, unless you can’t not do it. It’s an affliction
– This double negative was brought to you by No. 1 bestselling author, Simon Scarrow. I like to think of writing as an obsession. When you can’t envisage your life without writing, then that’s when you’re a writer. One of us, one of us.
The only reason that it’s scaring you is because you haven’t claimed it.
– My mother when I was freaking out about having a whole year without anything to fill it with. I think this advice is true with writing as well. The only reason why we writers are pathologically afraid of the blank page, is because we haven’t yet claimed it as our own. So claim it, baby. Fear is good.
De-frag. Regroup. The dream is not over.
– Great advice from my big brother when I was coping with rejection. This is an important view to take, because let’s face it, rejection is almost as much a part of life as blinking is. Because we cannot, and should not, expect everyone to have the same taste, and in the nicest possible way, some people think your work is shit. That doesn’t mean it is shit (well it might do sometimes). Most importantly though, without rejection we’d never learn anything new about being a writer or how to become a better one. And that would be #rubbish. I know, I should have my own TV show or something.
These are just a selection of the very best shining sparkles of loveliness that fill my life with magic and inspiration. It’s very early, I don’t know what I’m going on about.
And now, I thought it would be fun to talk about the very worst advice I’ve ever been given about being a writer. All of what you’re about to witness is a great load of trollop, and I’m going to tell you why.
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